Why Relationships Do Not Last?
You have learned about the law of attraction and how it applies to the subconscious mind. Your core beliefs either attract or repel a healthy relationship. But many women have managed to get into relationships with men even when they have a primary belief that they are not lovable. Maybe you look at your women friends and family members, fully aware of their insecurities and psychological issues, and you wonder how they are nevertheless able to attract men. Why do you have to do this work and they don’t?
There is another factor involved called the law of transfiguration. This law states that what you believe on the subconscious level is continually communicated to others. So when you date someone, this man can actually read your mind. He may be physically attracted to you at first, but when he spends more time with you, he might suddenly lose interest. You may not have done anything differently. You could have played by the rules and acted cool, but your guy still left you. The reason is that he unconsciously picked up on your core beliefs (which are beneath your conscious awareness), and he started to believe what you believe about yourself. You actually hypnotized him to not love you!
Many short-lived romances end because of this law. Two people “fall in love” superficially, but their relationship is eventually undermined by their hidden beliefs, and one or both of them become repelled by the other. People’s deepest insecurities arise when the excitement of the initial passion wears off. If the relationship survives, the reason is often because one or both parties disconnect from their emotions and continue a shallow relationship. Don’t assume that all of your couple friends and family members are really happy just because they have a partner. If you want an intimate, healthy relationship, you must address your deep negative beliefs and transform them.
Clearing away subconscious beliefs that hinder you is such a powerful technique. This is because the subconscious mind is not limited by time and space. Whenever you feel attuned to someone, communication occurs on a subconscious level between your mind and that person’s, even if you are thousands of miles apart. You each sense the other’s deepest beliefs, regardless of physical proximity.
This is how a man can sense your presence (or your “essence”) from across the room or during a phone call. The good news is that once you clear away the negative beliefs, your love magnet will reach every corner of the planet. When you transform your core beliefs from feeling unworthy to being certain that you are lovable, beautiful, and amazing, you will send that subconscious message to every man you meet. The biggest benefit, however, will be long term because the relationship will last. You will not be “talking a man out of loving you” on the subconscious level anymore. You will develop authentic power and find the love you truly deserve.
You have probably experienced glimpses of the law of transfiguration when you finally got over an old boyfriend and he suddenly reappeared in your life. He stopped feeling that needy pull from you and was now interested in getting you back. Of course, this always occurred when you had no desire left for him. Many relationship books will tell you to act cool and aloof to get a man, but this sham works only temporarily. When you change your core beliefs, you will not have to act. You will naturally feel more attractive, and men will be drawn to you without any effort on your part. You will get to choose from a selection of bachelors and be in control of your dating destiny.